Am i being unreasonable that i am really upsett by this?

No, I really don't blame you for feeling the way you do. Just because she has worked out a plan to stay there in that town and in that house does not mean that you or her will be happy there. To say that one does not want to move just because it's a lot of trouble is kind of a cop out. I don't know what you can do about it other than continue to try to convince her though.